Eeram – A touching reality

” Trust Your Life Partner, don’t care about how he/she was in the past, Just see how he/she is at present and how he/she is going to be in future”

Trust does it exist these days. My friends, I’m not writing a review on Eeram but this piece of dialogue struck me very hard. Since I’m at home , because I’m sick for the past two day. I dint have much work to do rather than watch this movie. Life is all about trusting everyone else around you but now is it possible these days. My father cannot even trust his own brother. They had this huge fight yesterday morning which totally put me off as well as increase my fever. I usually don’t show out my emotions but yesterday seeing my dad shout at his brother like he has never done before made me to rethink about trusting anybody for that matter.

Now coming back to the movie, trusting your life partner!! I knew a friend of mine who loved his guy very sincerely but after they got married it was always fights. I mean who doesn’t fight these days, but the root causes of these fights were not trusting each other, Ego and other personal issues. Main thing was she found that the guy was having an affair with another woman twice her age. When she confronted him about it, he blankly said that she was not able to satisfy him and this was only after 3 months of marriage. She had to divorce him but that he pleaded her not to let go of him. I even remember seeing him fall on her legs when he had come to her house to ask her to take him back. Since they had to live together atleast for a year, she agreed to go to his house. He was normal for a month and then again he started seeing the same woman. My friend thought this was the limit and left him just like that. Finally, now she is in a good job, living with her parents but all the perverse men are waiting to lay their hands on her whenever they could get the chance. This is a reality and she is living it. I’m not saying that its only the men who are under the fault. I know a few women who are betraying their husbands. This isn’t life. Lies, betrayal and all, just for the mere sake of sex. It totally ruins not only their lives but also the kids.

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Kavithai

 

 

Unnai Mudhal Murai Partha Podhu Yarpadatha ondru,

Unnai Parka Parka than Thondriyadhu!!

Indhu Kadhal ah?

 

Aam! Indhu Kadhal than,

Anal Un Mel Ala.

Nee Aval Mel Vaithi Irukum

Kadhal Medhu.

PS: I stopped studying Tamil in class 8th because I hated my Tamil Teacher but then I realised years later that I am missing one of the best part of being an Tamilian. This is my first attempt to write a tamil Kavithai. It might sound like Dhanush’s Dialogue but I really liked the pun in it. This is to you Sriram – Senthamizhan

The ‘8’ tag

8 TV SHOWS I LOVE TO WATCH

Friends

Neeya Naana

Everybody loves Raymond

Faith and Hope

Are you better than a 5th grader?

Hannah Montanna

Godzilla (in chutti Tv with pooja)

Kaana Kaanum Kalangal

8 FAVORITE PLACES TO EAT

At home

Cascade

Pizza Hut

Cakes and bakes

Coffee day

Mocha

Saravana Bhavan

Sangeetha

8 THINGS THAT HAPPENED YESTERDAY

Felt very bad for not wishing my friend Akila on her birthday.

Found that Praveen misses me too… 🙂

Wrote a very sentimental poem in my blog

Changed my template with was too confusing.

Got a new follower for my blog.

I am so proud about my friend Praveen getting 4th rank in class.

Was happy about the weight I have reduced in the past two months. KEWL

Thinking about starting a new entreprise for moi after reading about C.K Ranganathan.( Cavin Kare’s MD)

8 THINGS I LOOK FORWARD TO

Getting my 3rd trimester marks which I have done with a lot of extra efforts.

Looking forward to GOTA (a foreign trip which is part of our curriculum).

Placements of course!!!!!

Get back with my friends.

Celebrating my dad’s 50th Birthday @ his favourite place- Tiruvannamalai

Chucking my sister out of India(lol), she is leaving to UK for higher education on Sept 14th.

Stop cribbing for my friends and start finding new ones who will accept me however I am.

Start writing more on my blog as I’m headind towards my 200th post soon. kewl.

8 THINGS I LOVE ABOUT WINTER

Attention I get from my parents if I fall sick which happens in all winters.

Getting wet in the rain.

Cuddle from a girlfriend who is feeling cold.

Watching the rain pour heavily

Hot coffee

Getting my mom crazy if she comes to know I come home drenched in rain.

Cold mornings and warm afternoons.

Hot water bath in winter which is so refreshing!!!

8 THINGS ON MY WISH LIST

Getting a Maybach for my sister.

Building my mom her dream house with speakers and woofers( that was my idea)

Visit Princess Diane’s cemetery.

Get my parents a world tour ticket.

Open my own company and have it merged with TATA.

Pay my income tax properly and in huge amounts

Meet C.K Ranganathan and talk to him on various aspects of business.

Make a film featuring Rajini kanth but this time as the grandfather of the hero. lol

8 THINGS AM PASSIONATE ABOUT

Business

MBA

Friendship

Trust

Blog

Love

Mobiles

India

8 WORDS OR PHRASES I USE OFTEN

Ultimate

Poruki

Lappy

Daddy

Idiot

Dude

Machi( guys)

Mams( girls)

8 THINGS I LEARNT FROM PAST

You are never alone because God is there

Hurt is painful but still trying to getting over it is even more painful

Betrayal is your worst nigthmare

Think atleast once before doing anything

Even if you lose everything in life, you can get back up with self cofidence.

Blogging is fun.

My dad, my best friend.

Don’t do think which you can never tell your parents.

8 PLACES I WOULD LOVE TO GO OR VISIT OR SEE

Taj Mahal

Paris

Swiss

Australia

Canada

London

New zealand

Cherrapunji

8 THINGS I CURRENTLY NEED OR WANT

My friend praveen

Some new clothes

My marketing sir Satheesh Krishnamurthy

Get out of the house and freak out by doing crazy stuffs

Get myself a new mobile phone (HTC)

Executive Collection of watches from Titan for my upcoming office life.

Do something bad and get caught by my parents. ( I’m becoming too goody goody)

Talk to my old friend Vinoth very badly.( I miss you da)

Hey I’m tagging everybody who reads this. You are it!!
Thank you for reading my mokkai answers…:)

Lost all my Photos

I had this stupid spyware problem with my laptop and sometimes I thought someone else was using my system rather me being online too. I never even let my sister touch my precious laptop. I had too many secrets hidden inside.LOL. So I just wanted to format it and my friend, Ram, formatted the D drive by mistake and now its all gone. My movies, music, songs, software, pictures, games and all my stuffs are lost just like that. I should have kept a back up but I dint mean to take the whole system. I miss my precious photos. Al my relatives, family, friends and all sort of picture were always giving me a way to smile just by looking at it. I miss it and I blame on me. Here I’m stil upset about what has happened and trying to take everything as it comes. 😦

Tag fever :)

This Tag was found in most of the blogs I was reading today and  I wanted to do it too.. I hope I’ve done it correctly.

Tag Rules: It’s harder than it looks!(Mind It). Copy to your own note, erase my answers, enter yours, and tag your friends. Use the first letter of your name to answer each of the following questions. They have to be real… nothing made up! If the person before you had the same first initial, you must use different answers. You cannot use any word twice and you can’t use your name for the boy/girl name question. Have Fun!!

And those of you who have names starting with “R”…  You should not write the same answer which i wrote…

1. What is your name: Raji.

2. A four Letter Word: Rich

3. A boy’s Name: Rajesh

4. A girl’s Name: Rajani

5. An occupation: Radio Jockey

6. A colour:  Rose

7. Something you wear: Ribbons. ( Thank god.. I was a girl. Hardly can find any R stuff here.)

8. A food: Roti, Rasam, Rice.

9. Something found in the bathroom: Razor. (This one was given by my dad. Thanks dad)

10. A place: Rameshwaram

11. A reason for being late: Rain. ( That was simple)

12. Something you shout: Rowdy…!!

13. A movie title: Rang de basanti, Road trip, Rock on!!

14. Something you drink: Rum. (LOL)

15. A musical group: Red hot chilli peppers

16. An animal: Rat

17. A Street name: Rajaji Salai(OMR)

18. A type of car: Rolls- Royce

19. A song title: Rasathi unna (Vaidhegi Kaathirundhaal)

20. A verb: Run

I am tagging Raji, Angie, Nikhil, Anand & all those people who read my blog. I want to see all of you complete this Tag. 😉

Happy Independence day-2009

Indian_FlagIt is the 62th independence day for India. We have reached many heights and achievements which are all we always talk about. But still we haven’t reached the top even though we are under a steady growth towards it. I studied about the 8 millennium goals which are to be achieved by all the nations so that we have a peaceful world. Thats what we, Indian have to aim for and no war or enmity with any other country. Peace and Happiness all over can only achieved only if we initiate at our individual level. My friend Sriram always says,” I hate violence against women and children.” I thought that small thing which he follows can make a big difference to everybody if followed. It made me think about it and talk about it. That is a big difference. Simple things like this can build more peaceful country.

India is my pride and I’m proud to be an Indian. Jai Hind